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Thinking of You Week: Thoughtful Ways to Make Someone Smile

You don’t need a birthday, holiday or special occasion to remind someone they matter.

Thinking of You Week, celebrated each September, is a wonderful reason to reach out to friends and family with a card, handwritten note or thoughtful surprise. But the idea behind it is worth celebrating all year long: when someone crosses your mind, let them know!

From a sweet message in the mail to a little gift chosen just for them, there are plenty of easy ways to turn “thinking of you” into “you made my day.”

What Is Thinking of You Week?

Thinking of You Week is an annual celebration that encourages people to connect with others through greeting cards and handwritten messages. It’s a simple idea with plenty of heart—taking a moment to show someone that they’re remembered.

And while sending a card is at the heart of the celebration, there are lots of ways to make your gesture personal.

Send a Little Happy Mail

Who says the mailbox is only for bills and packages?

Surprise a friend or family member with a Thinking of You or Friendship Card when they least expect it. Add a handwritten message that sounds like you, whether that means sentimental, silly or somewhere in between.

Tell your best friend you miss her. Send Grandma an update. Write your grown child a note just because. Let an old friend know you still remember the adventures you shared.

A few heartfelt words can travel a long way.

Choose a Thoughtful Gift Just for Them

Sometimes you see something and immediately know who would love it. That’s the perfect reason to send it!

A small Personalized Gift can turn an ordinary week into a happy surprise. Think about the person rather than the occasion. What makes them smile? What do they love to do? What little something would make them say, “You know me so well”?

Explore Gifts for Her, Gifts for Him or other gift collections to find something that fits their personality, hobbies or interests.

The gift doesn’t have to be extravagant. The real message is simply, “I saw this and thought of you.”

Make It Personal

Adding someone’s name can make a thoughtful gesture feel even more special.

Personalized Stationery makes a lovely surprise for someone who enjoys sending notes of their own, while personalized home, office and everyday items offer plenty of ways to choose something uniquely theirs.

Personalization is especially meaningful when you’re sending something across the miles. It turns a little surprise into a keepsake chosen specifically for one person.

Remember the Little People, Too

Thinking of You Week isn’t just for grown-ups!

A surprise for a child or grandchild can create a pretty big smile. Send a card with a funny message, tuck a note into a package or choose something from Lilly’s Kids that matches their interests.

For grandchildren, nieces, nephews or other special kids who live far away, an unexpected delivery can be a fun reminder that someone is thinking about them—even when you can’t be together.

Celebrate Their Favorite Things

One of the easiest ways to choose a thoughtful gift is to start with what the recipient already loves.

Maybe they’re happiest in the kitchen, never miss a game, adore their pets, love decorating their home or always have a project underway. Shopping by interests can help you find a gift that feels personal without needing a special occasion to give it.

That’s what makes a “just because” gift so much fun. There are no rules.

Don’t Wait for a Special Occasion

Birthdays and holidays give us dates on the calendar to celebrate the people we love. Thinking of You Week reminds us that we don’t always need one.

Send the card. Write the note. Mail the little surprise.

And the next time someone unexpectedly crosses your mind, consider that your reminder to reach out. Sometimes knowing that someone was thinking of you is the best gift of all.

Thinking of You Week FAQs

What is Thinking of You Week?
Thinking of You Week is celebrated each September as a way to encourage people to connect with friends, family and others through greeting cards and handwritten messages.

What is a good Thinking of You gift?
A good Thinking of You gift is something selected with the recipient’s personality or interests in mind. Personalized gifts, stationery, small keepsakes and hobby-related gifts are thoughtful choices.

Do you need an occasion to send someone a gift?
Not at all. A small “just because” gift or card can be a meaningful way to let someone know they crossed your mind.

How can I make a Thinking of You gift more personal?
Choose something related to the recipient’s interests, add personalization when available and include a handwritten message explaining why you thought of them.

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